Decision making can be a hot topic in some families, and submission seems to be a filthy word to some.
Biblical submission is not about a step ladder of authority, inferiority and superiority, or control.
Biblical submission is about trust and peace and being empowered in who Christ has made a man (husband) and a woman (wife) to be.
I can become completely obsessed with a decision that needs to be made, but when I say, 'Handsome, I trust that you're going to make the decision you believe is best for us.' I receive so much peace.
I am thankful for a husband who hears my thoughts, discusses decisions with me, but ultimately takes the lead and responsibility(!) of the decision. I find that the husband's role is so much more difficult than a wife's role, and I am tremendously appreciative of my husband!
God bless you and keep you,
~Raquel
Excellent thoughts on the subject! I always compare my role as a wife to the church's role to Christ. It is not a burden, instead it is a joy, and indeed brings me great peace to leave my concerns with Christ, and trust He knows best. As I understand the role of the church, then understanding my role as a wife is much easier. I think the lies that the enemy has used through the feminist movement has done so much to hinder and undermine how a family should work together, and not against or at odds with each other. Your short "blurb" on the subject speaks volumes of truth :)
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